Christmas time in upon us once again.. consider these 1893 etiquette rules when receiving or giving your gift this year.
HOW TO RECEIVE A PRESENT
"Receive a present in the spirit in which it is given and with a quiet expression of thanks. On the other hand, never, when what you have given in admired, spoil the effect by saying it is of no value, or worse still, that you have no use for it, have others, or anything of that kind. Simply remark that you are gratified at finding it has given pleasure. "
REFUSING A GIFT
"Never refuse a gift if offered in kindness unless the circumstancess are such that you cannot with propriety or consistency receive it. Neither in receiving a present make such comments as 'I am ashamed to rob you;' 'I a sure I ought not to take it,' which seem to indicate that your friend cannot afford the gift"
VALUE OF PRESENTS
"In the eyes of persons of delicacy, presents are of no worth, except from the manner in which they are bestowed; strive then to gain them this value."
source: Wells, Richard A. Manners Culture and Dress. Springfield, MA: King Richardson and Co, 1893.
